But sometimes, as a woman, we have other things on our brain and just can’t get in the mood. Or you just may not enjoy doing it. I mean, there are a lot of bodily fluids involved and it can get pretty strenuous. As Samantha Jones from “Sex and The City” once said, “They don’t call it a job for nothing!”
Do women like giving blowjobs — and if so, why?
The answers vary, as human opinions tend to do. A survey conducted by sex coach and educator Sean Jameson revealed that while 92.6% of women like to give blow jobs, 76.8% have had at least one experience giving a blowjob they did not enjoy. RELATED: 4 Reasons Why I’m A Man Who Hates Blowjobs (And Why You’re Giving Them Wrong) After reading so often about why men like oral sex (and learning that there’s even a holiday dedicated to it (Steak and BJ Day, anyone?), I decided to conduct my own survey of my sexually active female friends and see what they really think. Here’s what the women who responded had to say about whether or not they like giving blowjobs.
Why Women Like Giving Blowjobs
They take pride in being good at it.
“I personally really enjoy giving my guy a good BJ. I take pride in it and give my all most of the time. Now mind you, I also get the favor returned and quite well. I get super turned on by it.”
Giving blowjobs turns them on.
“I used to hate giving blowjobs. It was all in the title “job,” but once I met my (now) husband I couldn’t give him enough! It’s like my body reacted in such a way, and I got super turned on! And of course hubby didn’t mind. He loved the way I would twist my head as I worked my magic (although he was a virgin and couldn’t compare to past experiences).”
They know men enjoy them.
“Enjoy giving them, and haven’t met a man yet that didn’t love receiving them.”
They like giving blowjobs as long as the guy isn’t pushy.
“I enjoy giving them and got my tongue ring just to make it more fun but the joy of giving them really depends on how pushy the guy is about getting one.”
Women love their partner pleasure.
“I love giving them. Love the feeling of giving someone pleasure.”
Women love bringing their A-game to the bedroom.
“I thoroughly enjoy it, actually. I can’t stand when I read and/or hear that women don’t like to give blowjobs. Speak for yourself. I get soooo turned on by getting my guy off. I bring my A-game, too. Of course, my man does the same in return.”
Women love mastering a special technique.
“I love giving them but only if the guy is super clean and preferably shaved. I like to use my hands and mouth at the same time. My special technique that every guy loves is that I run my tongue up and down first as I’m doing it before actually putting it all in my mouth.” RELATED: What The Kind Of Blowjob You Give Says About Your Personality
What Women Who Don’t Like Giving Blowjobs Have to Say
Some women don’t like giving blowjobs and therefore they avoid them.
“I avoid them at all costs!”
Some women don’t like giving blowjobs because they are time-consuming.
“I’ll pass on a bj but they aren’t too bad if you don’t have to swallow. They are kind of annoying and could be time-consuming. I do avoid them since I’ve been married. If you give them often then your partner might always expect them or they could be a gateway to actual sex.”
Some women think giving blowjobs is annoying.
“Annoying. Feel like my mouth is too small and I’ll chafe him with my teeth.”
Some women don’t like swallowing and find spitting messy.
“Not really a fan!! I don’t swallow so I need a spit cup close by. I do however cave into giving them once in a while because I know how to drive my husband wild—moderate suction and teasing of the head!!”
Some women feel they are too old to feel comfortable giving blowjobs.
“I used to like them. Now my neck hurts, my arm goes numb, my hand cramps up. I’m getting too old. If you ask my husband, he feels like he was sold a shoddy deal. He was so used to getting them, and I loved giving them to him. And now, not so much. But my technique is still impeccable and I don’t want to give him just a crappy one. If it’s not the best then why do it at all. My husband probably won’t agree with that.” RELATED: 8 Reasons Women Stop Giving Blowjobs To Guys They Love Liza Walter is a writer who focuses on current events, pop culture, and true crime. She loves cheese, Game of Thrones, her husband, and son. Not necessarily in that order.
