If You Fight About These 10 Things You Re In An Unhealthy Relationship
Emotionally healthy people take responsibility for their own emotional health. They are crystal clear on their real needs (without obscuring or abstracting them into other things), and they acknowledge and take primary responsibility for getting them met. And in a healthy relationship, both people do this. And this translates into their relationship accordingly. (a.) Because each person is calm and clear on what they need and does the majority of the emotional work upfront, they are fair in what they ask of their partner and straightforward in how they do so....